Christ has no body now on earth but yours, no hands but yours, no feet but yours; yours are the eyes through which to look at Christ's compassion to the world, yours are the feet with which he is to go about doing good, and yours are the hands with which he is to bless us now." 

                                                                                                                               - St. Teresa of Avila


A Rosary Litany of the Divine Mother Mary as Mother of Mothers 

This Rosary was modified and used for a ceremony involving expectant mothers along with the new fathers-to-be.  The ceremony involved giving small presents to the women along with wishes that were read for their success and happiness as mothers. Then the Rosary was done.  The very first time this was done, over a dozen people gathered around two expectant mothers who were due to give birth within several weeks.  At the close of the prayer session, all of the people placed their hands on the wombs of the yet-to-be-born children and prayed the last prayer “We give you to the strong power of love”.  It was a most profound and powerful experience!  Interestingly enough, one of the expectant mothers gave birth—two weeks early—several hours after the ceremony.  Her labor was less than 20 minutes.  While this is written for a single mother and child (including, of course, the father) more than one may be accommodated by substituting plural words appropriately.

There is an additional aspect to this ceremony, for while it does not seek to replace baptism, it does mark a new beginning—and a new relationship with the community as a family.  An African proverb says that “it takes a village to raise a child” and in today’s world this is more true than ever before.  By welcoming the expected child with warmth and love—even before birth—we send a powerful message as a community which seeks to strengthen the bonds of commitment and responsibility to extend to all of the members of a family’s community.  Just as in Baptism a child receives a Godparent for a more specific duty, in this ceremony we extend our love and blessings, protection and nurturance to both the mother and baby.  In this way we also support the father as well.  A baby born is more than just another human being, another statistic.  It is a gift of God not only to the parents and families, but to the entire community as well.  As a community, it is a privilege to bless, honor and support the new mothers and babies.

Prayer of Intention

Heavenly Father, we gather together in blessing for this mother and for this child, that together we may share in love what you have given to us:  the gift of life.  As this baby seeks birth, so do we seek birth:  the birth of Your heart and Your mind in our hearts and minds.  For this mother and child we ask for and seek the blessings of life, of love, of happiness, of joy, of play, of laughter, of companionship, of trust, of innocence, of simplicity, of grace and of strength.  Be their guide and their light, their teacher and their friend, their joy and their fulfillment.

For this father and child we seek the blessings of love, of joy, of unfolding heart, of compassion, of devotion, of comfort, of strength, of wisdom, of learning, of exploration, of confidence.  Be their guide and their light, their teacher and their friend, their joy and their fulfillment.

We ask of your angel host to guide and companion this mother and child and this father and child, to love and care for them, to share in their joy, to strengthen them and give them your blessings all the days of their lives.   Amen.

General Instructions

1.   Holding the cross in the right hand (if right handed), with the rest of the rosary in the left hand, bless yourself with the Invocation:

D  In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, Amen.

2.   Holding the cross in the right hand (if right handed), and with the rest of the rosary draped across the left hand, begin with this version of the Kyrie Eleison:

Leader                                                Response

Lord, Give Yourself to us

Lord, give yourself to us

Christ, give Yourself to us

Christ, give Yourself to us

Lord, give Yourself to us

Lord, give Yourself to us

God, our Father

Give Yourself to us

God, the Son

Give Yourself to us

God, the Holy Spirit

Give Yourself to us

Holy Trinity

Give Yourself to us

Holy Mary, Our Heavenly Mother Give Yourself to us

Amen. D

3.   On the first bead after the cross say the “Our Father”:

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name;  Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our  trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.  Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  Amen.

Alternate “Our Father” translated from the Aramaic (see introduction)

O Birther!  Father-Mother of the Cosmos,  focus your light within us—make it useful.  Create your reign of unity now; Your one desire acts with ours, as in all light, so in all forms.  Grant what we need each day in bread and insight.  Loose the cords of mistakes binding us, as we release the strand we hold of others’ guilt.  Don’t let surface things delude us, but free us from what holds us back.  From you is born all ruling will, the power and the life to do, the song that beautifies all;  from age to age it renews.  Amen.

4.   On the next three beads say the “AVE MARIA”:

Hail Mary, full of grace; the Lord is with thee.  Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb.  Amen.

5.   After the third AVE MARIA hold the chain and say the GLORIA PATRI:

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit:  as it was in the beginning, is how and ever shall be, world without end.  Amen.

6.   Name the mystery and read the thoughts and prayer that follow each one.  Begin with the OUR FATHER on the bead just before the medal and the AVE MARIA on the next ten beads following the medal.  On the chain following these ten beads, say the GLORIA PATRI.

7.      Then, name the next mystery and proceed exactly as above until all the mysteries have been said—that is say the OUR FATHER on the single bead, then the ten AVE MARIAs, then on the chain the GLORIA PATRI, then the next mystery.

 

First Blessing—Bearing the Light

Leader                        Response

Holy Mary 

Enfold us in Love, Pray for us in Love

Most Honored of Women

Enfold us in Love, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Christ

Enfold us in Love, Pray for us in Love

Mother of the Church

Enfold us in Love, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Divine Grace

Enfold us in Love, Pray for us in Love

Prayer:

Mother Mary, bearer of light, enkindle our hearts with the flame of love and the heat of devotion.  May this child and mother be held in your arms and nurtured by your love always.  Amen. 

 

Second Blessing—Birthing Love

Leader                        Response

Mother most pure

Fill us with Grace, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Love

Fill us with Grace, Pray for us in Love

Dearest of Mothers

Fill us with Grace, Pray for us in Love

Mother of the Savior

Fill us with Grace, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Light

Fill us with Grace, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Mother of Love, fill us with joy as we discover Love within, the source of all joy.  Bless this mother and child with love, enfolding them in your grace, melting their hearts with yours.  Amen.

 

Third Blessing—Filling the Vessel of Devotion

  Leader                        Response

Mirror of justice

Fill us with devotion, Pray for us in Love

Throne of wisdom

Fill us with devotion, Pray for us in Love

Shrine of the Spirit

Fill us with devotion, Pray for us in Love

Mystical Rose

Fill us with devotion, Pray for us in Love

Vessel of devotion

Fill us with devotion, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Vessel of Devotion, fill us with devotion as we melt into the Heart of God.  Help us through our devotion to spread Love to all of life, and through this mother and child spread the kingdom of heaven on earth.  Amen.

 

Fourth Blessing—Compassion

  Leader                        Response

Gate of Heaven

Fill us with compassion, Pray for us in Love

Morning Star

Fill us with compassion, Pray for us in Love

Refuge of many

Fill us with compassion, Pray for us in Love

House of Gold

Fill us with compassion, Pray for us in Love

Source of Compassion

Fill us with compassion, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Source of Compassion, fill us with compassion for all beings and through the compassion of God, enfold and embrace all of life as our own.  May this mother and child, though their compassion, inspire all who know them and draw many to the heavenly life within.  Amen.

 

Fifth Blessing--Service

  Leader                        Response

Vessel of selfless service

Fill us with Joy, Pray for us in Love

Most Honored of Women

Fill us with Joy, Pray for us in Love

Comfort of many

Fill us with Joy, Pray for us in Love

Mystery of Life

Fill us with Joy, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Divinity

Fill us with Joy, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Mother of Divinity, help us share in the Joy of creation and Love of life.  Help us to feel the Love of God in all life, and through this mother and child teach us the simplicity of love and the closeness of heaven in small things as well as in large. Amen.

Sixth Blessing--Peace

  Leader                        Response

Queen of Angels

Fill us with Peace, Pray for us in Love

Queen of Prophets

Fill us with Peace, Pray for us in Love

Queen of Apostles

Fill us with Peace, Pray for us in Love

Queen of the Rosary

Fill us with Peace, Pray for us in Love

Queen of Peace

Fill us with Peace, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Radiant with Peace, fill us with the peace that passes all understanding.  Through this mother and child, teach us that peace is our birthright and joy is our inheritance. Amen.

Seventh Blessing--Wisdom

  Leader                        Response

Mother of the Americas

Fill us with wisdom, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Europe

Fill us with wisdom, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Asia

Fill us with wisdom, Pray for us in Love

Mother of Africa

Fill us with wisdom, Pray for us in Love

Mother of the World

Fill us with wisdom, Pray for us in Love

  Prayer:

Mother Mary, Mother of Wisdom, fill this family—and all of us—with wisdom to use the gifts that God has given us for the upliftment of all mankind.  We pray for the growth in Love of all people, the spread of Wisdom, the expansion of Happiness, the increase of Light, and the Birth of Love into the hearts of all mankind. Amen.

 

Benediction (based upon the “breastplate” of St. Patrick)

  NOTE:  This is done with all placing a hand gently upon the wombs of the expectant mothers, if this is allowable according to local custom and personal comfort level of the mothers-to-be.  If there are too many people for this, allow several to so place their hands, with the remaining people placing a hand upon those in direct contact with the expectant mothers.  If there are far too many people for this—or the mother(s) do not feel comfortable being touched, then raising a hand in benediction toward the expectant mothers may suffice.

  We give you this day to the strong power of Love

To the obedience of Angels, the faith of confessors, the preaching of Apostles, to the purity of simple souls.

We give you this day to the virtues of the starlit heavens, the brightness of the sun, the whiteness of the moon, the flashing of lightening, the restlessness of wind, the stability of earth, and the deepness of the sea.

We give you this day to the power of God to lead you, His eye to watch over you, His hand to guide you, His Word to give you speech.

God with you, God beside you,

God behind you, God within you,

God beneath you, God above you,

God to the right of you, God to the left of you,

God in lying down, God in sitting, God in rising up,

God in the heart of every person who may think of you,

God in the mouth of everyone who may speak of you,

God in the eye of everyone who may look on you,

God in the ear of everyone who may hear you.

We give you this day to the strong power of Love.  Amen.